One of the worst things you can be is a pushy flirt. Most men and women do not like any people who try too hard to impress, and it is not exactly fun to have someone sell himself/herself too hard to you. That comes across as trying too hard and not exactly the work of an expert.
Flirting is a really nice way of getting to know someone better. Whether man or woman, a good flirt is a person who can grasp a situation and understand the body language of the object. As the act is mildly associated with one’s sexual prowess, if taken too hard, it can just turn people off, and mark you out as someone desperate. That will not help you with the person you are trying to impress and may get a wrong message across. This is why we suggest a few tricks which would help you gain more confidence and get to know what the person you are interested in is thinking.
1. Always check for signs. An interested person would not look away from you constantly, or ignore you. They will definitely maintain eye contact, on and off.
2. Their body language should not be defensive. By this, we mean, the person must not look threatened.
3. They should be talking back. You cannot do all the talking, there should be some reciprocation.
4. Go for an evasion and you will find interested people come to you, rather than make you do all the hard work.
