Well, so you think you are an accomplished flirt, right? Do you have the confidence to pass this simple do and don’t test? We shall explain the top things to do while flirting:
1. Check for signs of interest. A relaxed stance means the person is interested. A completely defensive and nervous stance often indicates otherwise.
2. Look for signs of impatience or anger. If the person looks that then they are probably not really willing to talk.
3. Do be encouraging. If the person concerned is shy, then go ahead and try to draw her out gently.
4. Try being objective, do not get carried away and blither. Rather, wait and consider your answer before giving them.
5. Make sure your object is comfortable in your company. Do not push when you know the person is not.
And when you are trying your hand at flirting, watch out, and do not make these easy mistakes:
1. Touch someone too much without permission. This can totally be misinterpreted and taken in the wrong way. Too many complaints of sexual abuse have occurred from this.
2. Constantly try to draw someone out by talking aggressively. Aggression never works.
3. Be too forceful. Flirting is a casual act, and there’s no such thing as serious there, so make sure you are serious.
4. Learn to avoid people who are not interested. You can easily spot this with body language.
5. Learn to respect the lack of interest, and accept that the word NO means exactly that.
